Why we pick difficult partners

In theory, we’re nowadays allowed to get together with pretty much anyone we like. And yet, at a psychological level, we aren’t free to love just any suitable person. We have a type – and strangely and awkwardly, these types are often not those who would be the obvious choice for a peaceful union.

So why do we choose certain partners and ignore others who could make us happy? This video takes a look at the core conditioning driving our relationship choices, and how we can move past destructive cycles for a happier relationship.

Source: Uplift

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